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Some people are just more interesting. For others, all they need is their desk job, a small group of normal friends, and enough freedom to hit the bars on the weekends. Okay, that’s great, but there are others of us that just don’t find satisfaction in a simple lifestyle. Fortunately, women are drawn to interesting men. Why wouldn’t they be? They get tired of the standard man who approaches them every night and fills up their phone with text messages. They want someone who brings something new to life, and you are going to cultivate an interesting personality, so you will be that man.
The number one thing that comes to mind about interesting people is that they have hobbies. That seems like a boring word. It seems like an ordinary word. But the word hobby covers such a broad range of activities it is anything but boring. What are some hobbies you can think of?
There are many that lend theirself to creating a great identity, keep your life interesting for yourself, and create value. Rock climbing, scuba diving, painting, playing guitar, singing, and poker all come to mind as hobbies that intrigue people.
Not only do these add depth to your life and make it more fulfilling to you, but they give you more to discuss with other people. Also, they keep you busy so you are not always following women around who aren’t showing anything in return. When your own life is fascinating, you don’t need others to supplicate you.
Make Friendships with Interesting People
One of the easiest ways to change your life is change the people you associate with. This might seem harsh, but it doesn’t have to be. You don’t need to go through your friends deleting them like you’re cleaning out your friends list on Facebook. Just start to bring others into your life who are out of the ordinary, inspiring, or eccentric.
Look for people who remind you more of what you want to be because they will encourage you to grow in the directions you already desire. Making new friendships will sometimes cause you to grow apart from old friends, but you might be surprised how some of your old friends take to the changes. As they spend more time with your new friends and an evolving you, they might start to evolve as well.
Having a mixed social circle is an intriguing trait in itself. No one who shows up at one of your dinners parties will be bored because there will be such a broad range of people to talk to. People who have traveled the world. People who play in a band. People who dance ballet and don’t drink. People who believe wine is the sole reason for living. Interesting people inspire you.
If you want to be interesting, you should have a dream. Ambitious dreamers can never stop being excited about what is in store. Ask some people their future plans and they start talking about the coming weekend, which is going to be just like their previous weekend. You should have a dream that would make anyone salivate, and you should pursue it. Don’t just talk, and if you do, don’t talk about it too much. Get out there and live it!
Reading and expanding your knowledge is a great way to add some juice to your social life. Even keeping up on current affairs is great for conversations in any crowd, though it’s usually a good idea to stay away from politics and religion. Intelligent people often have a richer experience of life and see the world from multiple perspectives.
It is a fine balance though—you cannot focus so much on mental stimulation that you let your social life suffer. In fact, socially adept people are commonly far more intelligent then you realize, and human interaction is great for mental stimulation.
One of the main ways to evolve as a person, have interesting things to talk about, and keep your life experience alive is world travel. In fact, this is a great way to escape the recession if you can find ways to pay your way on the road.
Before you think this is only for the rich, think again. Life on the road is cheap by following a budget and leveraging currency differences in some of the most amazing places on Earth. And there are plenty of women from all over the world to meet on the travel circuits.
A lot of people think this is only for irresponsible 20 year olds or retired businessmen. Not a chance. From English teachers to freelance writers to poker players to internet marketers, more and more people are using technology and a changing work force to create the mobile lifestyle. With that kind of experience, who needs to be interesting to others?
Being interesting is a vague, relative concept; therefore, these tips might seem the same. That’s fine. My point is that life does not have to be as basic and boring as so many people make it, and with a more complex life you create a dynamic personality.
It makes your world more valuable than anything you can find outside yourself, and when women get a peek at what being involved with you means for their horizon, they will be attracted. Everyone wants more than their current life. Go out there and get it, and they will want to be guided by you to do the same.
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