Approaching deals with the initial stage of the pick up. Learn when and how you should approach women. Click here to watch videos of pick up artists approaching women.
Secret To Meeting People
Average Rating: 3.84 [Total Votes: 27]
Thundercat - Back in the day when I was a lonely, clueless loser who’d spend his weeknights sitting hunched over the computer viewing internet porn instead of interacting with society, I used to wonder: “How do people meet each other?"
Before The Approach
Average Rating: 4.11 [Total Votes: 16]
Thundercat - Back when I was a kid, I was in the Boy Scouts. Now, anyone who knows anything about the Boy Scouts will know that tried and true motto: Always Be Prepared. It’s simple, it’s elegant, and most importantly – it’s damn effective!
Make The Right Impression
Average Rating: 3.00 [Total Votes: 2]
Richard La Ruina aka Gambler - The process of seducing a woman will begin before you’ve even exchanged words. Women will size up members of the opposite sex in the vicinity by subtler means than men and so can make a judgement about you without you even knowing if they know you exist!...
When A Girl Wants You To Approach
Average Rating: 3.55 [Total Votes: 11]
Giuseppe Notte - Walking down the street, you usually feast your eyes on the hot ladies going by and say to yourself, “I'd do her!” Has it ever occurred to you that men are not alone in this? Yes, my friend, women do the same!
How To Start A Conversation With Women
Average Rating: 4.58 [Total Votes: 19]
NightVision- Much of what John Alexander teaches stems from solid inner game of an alpha male. The best way is to combine his atitude and mindset to your other opening techniques...
Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work
Average Rating: 3.83 [Total Votes: 17]
Swinggcat - Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman and thought to himself, "Wow! She really works those breasts, bouncy bouncy."
Tease Her To Please Her
Average Rating: 4.14 [Total Votes: 7]
Carlos Xuma - This article is going to start you on a path to meeting more women, the beginning to all your action. It's called Tease to Please.
Two Common Approach Mistakes
Average Rating: 4.62 [Total Votes: 8]
Wayne Elise Juggler - Don't make these two common mistakes when approaching women.
The Tao of Judgement
Average Rating: 4.72 [Total Votes: 17]
Wayne Elise Juggler - An amateur rushes his words because he doesn't want to be judged. He wants to zip through to the end. He is so afraid of putting himself on the line that he will avoid at all costs giving her a chance to judge him. He seeks control and surety...
Mistakes When Approaching
Average Rating: 4.60 [Total Votes: 10]
Neil Strauss aka Style - When I went out the first night on Mystery's workshop, I tried an experiment. I approached a set, opened, and then DHV'd. [Demonstration of higher value.] And not a single set stuck. I didn't reach the hook point. Everything seemed sort of flat, until I finally just excused myself.
Active Disinterest
Average Rating: 4.77 [Total Votes: 17]
Neil Strauss aka Style - Someone asked about using a neg as an opener in a recent thread. The reply is: Yes, in fact you MUST neg to open sometimes or you won't get in. In the scene I've been sarging in lately, with highly socially proofed girls who are 9s and 10s, negs are the ONLY way to open. I'll explain in a mini FR below. It's unbelievable: every girl assumes anything you say (opinion openers, C&F, whatever) is hitting on her, because she's so used to it.
Opening Sticking Points
Average Rating: 4.92 [Total Votes: 13]
Sinn - Another big issue is Opening. This is kind of puzzling, since even some guys who are good at building attraction or creating comfort have flaws in their opening...
Neg Theory
Average Rating: 4.71 [Total Votes: 24]
Mystery - An HB is there, surrounded by her friends. She has put on this BITCH act. Is she REALLY a bitch? Unlikely. All my girlfriends were wonderful human beings. Beautiful people have it easier because they are beautiful and often times have better upbringings because of it...
The "I" Perspective
Average Rating: 4.40 [Total Votes: 5]
Wayne Elise Juggler - Let's look at another element of a good approach: Letting her get to know you a little. When I approach a woman I want her to joke around, share her opinions, reveal a weakness. I want her to be her real self. I can't find her sexy if I don't get to know her a bit...
