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Carlos Xuma

Carlos Xuma is the founder of Dating Dynamics. Carlos Xuma is giving away his Approach Annihilator eBook FREE for Seduction Tuition readers:

How To Take The Fear Of Approaching Women
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And, on the next page, I want to explain one of the most painful experiences a guy can go through when approaching women - and how it can be completely avoided...
Carlos Xuma

Carlos Xuma

Carlos Xuma Material:

Secrets of The Alpha Male <--**His Most Popular Intermediate Level Material**
Intermediate Level - It's time to learn the secrets of the Alpha Man - self-confidence to attract beautiful women & get all the girls you want.

How To Approach Women
Intermediate Level - Nervous? Don't be. Click here to learn how to approach women, how to talk to women and read their body language.

Power Social Skills
Advanced Level - Would you like to avoid people's games, connect more authentically with others, and get the social life you've always wanted...?

Alpha Conversation and Persuation
Advanced Level - Learn How to Talk to Anyone, Anywhere Anytime - and Never Lose Control

Dating Black Book
Starting Level - Learn how to attract women anywhere, anytime with the Dating Black Book.

Alpha Immersion Series
Advanced Level - No more fake pickup lines - Attract women with the REAL you

Advanced Coaching Series
Get your personal dating coach to show you how to approach and meet women with REAL confidence...

The Alpha Rules E-Book
Starting Level - Learn the Rules of Alpha Power - Carlos Xuma & Dean Cortez Teach You the Alpha Lifestyle

Alpha Lifestyle DVDs
Intermediate Level - This is the finishing touch you need to complete your Alpha Lifestyle and become a powerful Alpha Man. If you've been through all the other "pickup programs," maybe even a bootcamp, and you want to know how to make every area of your life a success with these principles, then this is the program you need.



Choosing Dating Advice

Carlos Xuma - One question I'm asked quite a bit is how to find dating advice for men that is both practical and useful. There's a lot of stuff out there, and if you're not careful, you could get pulled into a bad philosophy.

How To Get More By Asking More

Carlos Xuma - I want to introduce you to a unique concept that may finally change how you view your game with women.

Persistance Attitude

Carlos Xuma - I got a letter recently that I thought was provoking and interesting. I think it's such a critical point that it needs to be reviewed and restated.

How To Get A Girlfriend

Carlos Xuma - There's something you should know...ONE word. One word in the English language is probably what's stopping you from understanding how to get a girlfriend.

How To Get Girls

Carlos Xuma - Success with women is always relative. You need to plan your goal in advance, and then plan out a roadmap that will get you to that destination.

Understanding Women

Carlos Xuma - Does it ever feel like no matter what you say to a woman, you just can't say the right thing? Do you ever have problems understanding what women are saying to you?

Women Energy Frustration

Carlos Xuma - Some of you may be familiar with some Eastern school of thought on how energies are used in the human body. Chinese philosophies refer to it as Chi, and the energy itself can have both female and male (Yin and Yang) "flavors" to it.

Avoid These Mistakes With Women

Carlos Xuma - I didn't know it at the time, but I was reading the book that would RUIN my game with women... I stood at the checkout with this small red book by one of those self-help relationship gurus (I'm protecting the identity of the guilty party here... but it was a female author).

Women Like Bad Boys

Carlos Xuma - Women are often attracted to "bad boys" because they are aggressively pursued by them.

Secrets Of Women

Carlos Xuma - Way back in 2001, when I first started giving dating tips for guys, I made it my priority to give guys the Truth about women and dating. Even if it meant that I was being "politically incorrect."

Socially Awkward

Carlos Xuma - I was always a shy kid. I was embarrassed easily, and I always wanted to avoid those situations where I was put at the center of attention.

Two Types Of Guys

Carlos Xuma - Each of these two guys is single, intelligent, and generally a 'nice' guy. What they do have is widely disparate ATTITUDES toward life.


Carlos Xuma - Part of our needs as humans is to get validation along the way to assure us and make us feel approved of...

Raise The Bar

Carlos Xuma - Why are you settling for average returns?

Alpha Attitude

Carlos Xuma - Now, I'm going to reveal the single most powerful thing you can demonstrate with your personality to get any woman interested in you.

Three Winning Attitudes That Impress Women

Carlos Xuma - As you read these, I want you to try something for me. No matter how 'obvious' what I might say seems, I want you to re-think your beliefs about them, and see if you are still, perhaps, working under the opposite belief in some way.

Alpha Male

Carlos Xuma - There are a lot of guys out there sending conflicting information regarding what it is and isn't to be "Alpha." As in "Alpha Man" or "Alpha Male."


Carlos Xuma - The way we use our energy is indicative of our personalities and personal inclinations. How do women react to frustration?

How To Flirt With Women

Carlos Xuma - Flirting with women is something that guys often feel uncomfortable doing. I've had many guys write to me to tell me that they were afraid they'd get arrested if they were seen flirting with women in a store or other establishment during the day.

Female Indicators of Interest

Carlos Xuma - How do I know if a girl is interested in me? I find it hard to read her attraction to me when I'm so busy trying to show her my self-confidence?

Get Girls To Notice You

Carlos Xuma - We want to stand out in a crowd. Every man wants to walk into a bar and have all the heads turn to look at him, and it IS possible. You just have to learn how to differentiate yourself from the rest.

Ways To Meet Women

Carlos Xuma - When you get right down to it, there are only two dating skills that really matter to guys: 1) Meet Women, 2) Keep women.

Tease Her To Please Her I

Carlos Xuma - This article is going to start you on a path to meeting more women, the beginning to all your action. It's called Tease to Please.

Tease Her To Please Her II

Carlos Xuma - All women have a standard routine of being a little stand-offish to you until you bust past this barrier...

Tease To Please In Action

Carlos Xuma - I was at the bus stop a couple weeks ago, and I saw a gal there who I had seen once before. She was young, attractive, blonde. I immediately saw some potential for conversation, so I just started talking to her as if I already knew her from somewhere else.

How To Create Sexual Tension

Carlos Xuma - One thing that is critical for developing attraction with a woman that will lead to your eventual seduction success is learning how to build and nurture the sexual tension between you.

Tantalize Her With Scents

Carlos Xuma - One area that guys don't take advantage of enough is the power of smell with a woman. Scents and smells are very important to them, and it's been scientifically proven that women are much more sensitive than men to odors.

3 Laws of Attraction

Carlos Xuma - When I was a teenager growing up, I was always fascinated by this friend of mine, John, who was only 16, but he lived in an apartment with a friend - not with parents.

Points System

Carlos Xuma - In short, your posture is your overall status level with a woman. Your posture can range from total supplicating wimp on the left end of the scale, and hardcore self-interested jerk on the far right.

Topics To Discuss & Avoid

Carlos Xuma - Here are some good things to talk about with women that will keep the excitement and attraction moving up, like the mercury in a thermometer.

How To Ask Women Out On A Date

Carlos Xuma - Most guys have a tough time when it comes to the point where he needs to ask her for a date. It's intimidating to put yourself in front of a woman and give her the power to reject you.

Spending Money On Dating Women

Carlos Xuma - I want to tell you about a situation a lot of my students have gone through with women. This situation is regarding spending money on women - specifically for dates.

Handling Payment On Dates

Carlos Xuma - A woman friend of mine, who is married, was telling me that when women offer to pay their share for something, they are actually testing men to see how cheap we are.

Date Conversation Topics

Carlos Xuma - Most guys would approach women more (and have more success in dating) if they felt more comfortable with talking to women.

Being Single Is Just As Good

Carlos Xuma - Don't be in such a hurry to get into a relationship, guys. I just read an article on, relating a survey that tracked 24,000 people and showed that marriage does NOT make you more happy. (Gee, we needed a survey for this?)

Get Over Ex Girlfriend

Carlos Xuma - Recently, I have been coaching men in how to get over an ex girlfriend.

How To Get A Girlfriend Tips

Carlos Xuma - I was standing up there in front of a crowd of eager guys presenting a seminar on how to attract women and how to get a girlfriend, and a strange urge overtook me...

Handling Last Relationship Question

Carlos Xuma - "Tell me about your last relationship..." Those six words can strike fear into the heart of just about any man. The truth is that women LOVE to ask this question, and men HATE to answer it.

What Kind Of Gifts To Give Women

Carlos Xuma - From time to time I get questions from guys - usually around a holiday or birthday - about what to give women for gifts.

Why Do Women Break Up With Men

Carlos Xuma - When I first started dating, I had good luck in finding women, but lousy luck in keeping them.

Personality and Biggest Mistake Men Make With Women

Carlos Xuma - Have you ever met someone that you felt was just really boring? Bland? Dull? It's interesting, because it's rarely about what a person HAS that adds up to their being boring; it's what they're MISSING. Personality...

Time Problem With Women

Carlos Xuma - Have you ever met someone that you felt was just really boring? Bland? Dull? It's interesting, because it's rarely about what a person HAS that adds up to their being boring; it's what they're MISSING. Personality...

Get A Girls Number

Carlos Xuma - A lot of guys wonder how to REALLY answer the question of the best way to get girls number - and I'm going to explain which ones work and which ones do NOT work.

When To Call A Woman

Carlos Xuma - When do I call her? Experts say wait till 2 to 3 days then call, but what if you call and it went into voice mail. Shall I leave a message? Or call again later?

Personalising Openers

Carlos Xuma - You see, in order for a woman to feel attracted to you, she must believe that she is unique and special in some way to you. Different from the other 358 women you approached today. A woman has to feel UNIQUE.

Pick Up Lines That Work

Carlos Xuma - You know, if you study dating and the art of attraction, you start to hear some crazy stuff. You even begin to wonder if some of it is for real.

Confidence Despite Liabilities

Carlos Xuma - EVERY guy has a liability of some kind. Short. Bald. Chubby. Missing a tooth. Missing a leg. Whatever. You have to learn how to communicate your confidence THROUGH that liability, and at the same time not seem defensive, or like you're carrying around issues.

How To Approach Women In Bars & Clubs

Carlos Xuma - The approaches will break down each situation into the essential ingredients. This isn't your usual "be confident and just ask her" advice. I'm going to give you specific goals, opportunities, dangers, approaches, and analytical details of each situation...

Benefits of Day Game

Carlos Xuma - Meeting women all day long is much more effective than just hitting up the bars and clubs on occasion hoping to "get lucky."

How To Approach Women In Grocery Store & Coffee House

Carlos Xuma - I think that most guys would probably agree that the most difficult part of the whole dating and seduction scene is just getting to meet more women. Everything starts there...

How To Approach Women In The Street

Carlos Xuma - Get her phone number and/or email. A progression to complete seduction is very unlikely. However, you can try to bridge the opportunity to meet her later that evening of the same day...

How To Approach Women In Retail Stores And Gyms

Carlos Xuma - You're browsing books at a bookstore, and you see a cute redhead picking through the latest non-fiction...

How To Meet Women On Facebook

Carlos Xuma - With all the social media sites out there, one has taken the world by storm: Facebook. And it only comes naturally that guys will want to leverage this new tool to meet women.

Carlos Xuma's Other Articles:



How To Ask A Girl Out On A Date

Carlos Xuma - It's the most intimidating question a guy can ask a woman, and one that I get asked about regularly. It feels like such a risky proposition, putting yourself out there for a woman's approval (or rejection.)

How To Meet Women With No Rejection

Carlos Xuma - Before I give up one of my secrets, I want to talk about a dirty word with you. Well, it's not a cuss word, but it's dirty because no one wants to talk about it.

Critical Elements Of Success

Carlos Xuma - Would you ever believe that a stolen car radio could change someone's life for the better?

Reading Body Language

Carlos Xuma - When I first started learning how to meet women and get them interested in me, one of the first things I wanted to learn was about reading body language.

Dating Fears

Carlos Xuma - One of my good friends in the "dating tips for guys" field called me the other day, and in our conversation he asked me what I thought men and women's worst fears were in dating.

Valentines Day

Carlos Xuma - Do you find that bloody depressing, or motivating and exciting? I want everyone out there to remember that this situation is entirely under YOUR control.

Beware The Alfie

Carlos Xuma - I happened to watch the Jude Law movie "Alfie" the other night. While I can't recommend it based on its merits as a movie (especially if you have as little time as I do), I found the message in it to be very disturbing and worth noting.

PUA Scam

Carlos Xuma - I recently came across someone who wrote a long article in a forum about how he felt that dating advice programs were scams. And that "You don't have to buy any advice to get better with women or to improve yourself."

Get Girls To Like You

Carlos Xuma - So how DO you get women to like you? The first step is to appeal to their needs. The first need a woman has is for her validation.

Writing Online Profile Ad

Carlos Xuma - Here's a rule I want you guys out there to remember: Don't be afraid to scare away the women you don't want.

Media Know What Women Want?

Carlos Xuma - The news media tends to recycle its stories. The reality is that anything that is put out there "on the wire" is rarely NEW news. It's picked up and repeated without any real investigation or verification.

Where Did This Bad Information Come From?

Carlos Xuma - I was thinking the other day about men's perceptions about women, and how we "figured out" what it is they're looking for. I wondered how men could have been so misled regarding this subject, and just where did it come from?

Double Standard

Carlos Xuma - They are saying that it's ok that a woman sees more than a single guy. But when a guy dates more than a single woman he's bad boy. Double standards or what!?

Far Far and Away

Carlos Xuma - There is a point in this silly Tom Cruise/Nicole Kidman romance movie. You just have to watch carefully.

Yes No Maybe?

Carlos Xuma - I was talking the other day with a friend, (a fellow Alpha Male) and he was joking about the way boys grow up, drawing dicks on desks, and how they would write the notes to the girls to find out if they liked him or not...