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For the first week or so, if you're feeling a bit nervous about approaching women, work your way into this slowly. Just use the intro line I gave you, and take it wherever you need. Hell, I'd even recommend you ONLY ask her the first part ("Where'd you get xxxx, my sister might like that ..."), then say "thanks" and walk away. Get used to just chatting up anyone and everyone you meet. Take the pressure off for the first week or two, until you get used to the fact that WOMEN AREN'T GOING TO REJECT YOU LIKE YOU THINK THEY WILL.
You don't need anything fancy or clever. You don't need anything special to comment on. You just take WHATEVER she is wearing or holding and comment on it AS IF IT WERE different or interesting. Then, by virtue of following it up with a quick tease, you get her mind off her initial defense (IS HE SAFE?) and on to validating herself a little to you. This is the primary psychological underpinning of the whole "TEASE TO PLEASE" method. And I just gave it to you in a simple, workable format.
What most guys will do is to spend all their energy trying to climb over her initial trust hurdle, when they really need to focus on getting her to flip that switch in her head by making HER the one to present herself to you. (This will be more apparent when I explain the Tease portion in our next installment.)
Most guys will take any approach and shoot it down and find everything they can about what's WRONG with it before they will go out and use it and make it work. My advice to you is to prove it won't before you even think about coming back to me with a rebuttal. I know that I'll get scads of letters asking me what to do in X situation or Y situation, because they're 'different' somehow, but it makes NO difference. You only have to spot one anchor on her to comment about. I use it all the time, and it is very effective.
Just remember to keep things light and humorous, and never to insult.
ANYTHING can work, if you just use it in the right way. I just gave you the first half of a technique that works ANYWHERE, ANYTIME. On ANY woman. The best part about it is that it is simple, universal, and effective. All you have to do is to find your target, find an anchor, and start your Tease ... (but only to please...)
In my future articles for SeductionTuition.com, I will cover many other focused approaches that you can use as well, from meeting her online, or at a dance class, or at a bookstore, or even Wal-Mart. You'll also get the complete breakdown of the psychology to the close for the phone number. I'll tell you where and when to use flattery, and how to mine the rich ore of women you see every day. There's nothing you won't know about meeting ANY woman ANYtime, ANYwhere. (I'll even tell you what the single underlying reason is for a woman's defense for all men that approach her, and how to bypass it.)
Now, get out there and start getting in the game. You play it from the comfort of the stands.
Stay tuned! It's going to get good...
I'll have the last half of this method to you soon.
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