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That's right, boys. Teasing is all about raising the stakes of challenge to her, and letting her know that you don't get all mushy inside when you get near a girl. No confidence = no attraction from her.
Tease to Please is a simple strategy. By teasing, you emulate a lot of the self-confidence you need to demonstrate with a woman. That's really the secret in a nutshell. Call it what you want, Cocky and funny, confident and humorous, Tease to Please. You are showing her you have the balls to not roll over and pant like a whipped dog every time a woman comes near you.
Here's how you do it:
When we left off, you'd just delivered your introduction. Now you are in a position to continue the conversation as you see fit. You've disarmed her natural defenses and opened up your opportunity to engage her attraction mechanism. You do this through Teasing.
Here's one of the examples we used last time:
Example: She's got bright red shoes on.
YOU: "Wow, those are ... interesting shoes. My sister might like a pair like that. Where'd you get them...?"
HER: "Oh, these? Uhm, I got them at Macy's. They're really old. I was looking to get a new pair."
YOU: "Well, my sister is pretty young, but she'd like that style. For an OLD lady ... (PAUSE) ... you're a pretty sharp dresser." You give her a SLIGHT smile that says "That was a joke."
Remember, "sister" can be changed to aunt, or cousin, or whatever. You can use my standard response I gave you for now, but you'll do better if you learn how to think on your feet and come up with more personal and customized versions. There are a whole host of teasing responses. Here are some others (delivered with that sly smile):
"Well, with heels that high, you better watch out for awnings. And low-flying planes."
"How many feet have you crushed with those things? I'm wearing steel-toes, so don't try it on me."
Let's say it's about a ring she's wearing:
"Well, my sister likes those 'groovy' rings, too. Do you have a mood ring? I bet you were the kind of girl to wear one of those. Was it blue all the time? You look like you have cold hands."
"My sister likes toe rings like that. Do you wear them on your toes, too? Just don't tell me you have a weird piercing, like your butt-cheek. That would just be TOO freaky."
"Wow, that thing is HUGE. I bet you have to leave it off when you go swimming, huh? Or else you'd sink right to the bottom."
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