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4) ATTRACTIVE WOMEN HAVE A LOT OF CHOICES. Most men have never even taken a minute of their lives to consider what it must be like to be an attractive woman. Attractive women are approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME by men who are interested in them. For an attractive woman, every smile, every kind gesture, and every favor is in one way or another viewed as INTEREST. An attractive woman is approached in one way or another MANY times a day. It would be impossible for an attractive woman to give even a small fraction of her time to each of the men who shows interest in her.
5) MEN ARE SOOOOO UNORIGINAL. Just as most men have never given a thought to how it must feel and what it must be like to be an attractive woman, most men have never given a thought to the fact that MEN ARE PREDICTABLE BEYOND BELIEF... from an attractive woman's point of view. The comment or compliment that you think is so original, or the invitation to a date... or the question about her having a boyfriend... or the comment that "her boyfriend is a lucky man"... is so UNORIGINAL, PREDICTABLE... AND WORST OF ALL, BORING to an attractive woman. She gets this stuff 100 times a day! And men who are unoriginal do NOT stand out from the crowd.
6) ATTRACTIVE WOMEN HAVE WUSS-DAR! There are a few simple, unmistakable signals that men give off that say, "Hey, I'm just another WUSS, so don't pay attention to anything else I do, because I'll always be one"... which, of course, makes women RUN. (As a side note, attractive women also have NON-WUSS-DAR as well. In other words, from a few simple clues, an attractive woman can quickly know if she is dealing with a man who is NOT a Wuss, and who, therefore, will be one of the few who are allowed the time and consideration for romantic interactions.)
Soooo, what is it about being a WUSS that is the big problem here?
Why is it that of all things in the world, this is the "big sin" when it comes to attracting women?
It's taken me several years now to really figure this out, and it's not exactly simple to explain (A detailed explanation is available in my Advanced Dating Techniques Program).
But, I'll sum it up and say this:
WOMEN COME "PRE-PROGRAMMED" WITH A MENTAL IMAGE OF THE KIND OF MAN THAT THEY SHOULD FEEL ATTRACTION FOR. THIS PROGRAMMING IS BOTH GENETIC AND CULTURAL. WHEN A WOMAN MEETS THIS MAN, THINGS HAPPEN ON THEIR OWN... INSTANTLY.
Now, I personally believe that MOST of this programming is genetic. In other words, women are BORN with it.
Attraction isn't like other things that "seem" like they should be similar.
If you want to make friends with someone, you should be nice, do them favors, be courteous, and generally act like you're making an effort.
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