Fortunately, you DO NOT need to be a highly trained hypnotist to induce hypnosis in a woman. After all, women have been practicing self-hypnosis all of their lives. She has already had the experience of going into a trance when watching an engrossing movie or getting lost in a good book.
Also keep in mind that ANY woman can become hypnotized. How suggestible she is has no relation to how gullible, trusting, submissive, compliant, or how much of an active imagination she has. An imaginative, submissive girl will not necessarily go deeper into hypnotic trance than anyone else. (However, if she is the kind of person that becomes easily “swept away” when reading, listening to music, or daydreaming you may have an easier time hypnotizing her.)
However, although hypnotism is surprisingly simple once you get the hang of it, you must follow a few important rules to successfully and quickly hypnotize her.
Hypnotist’s Rule #1. She must want you to hypnotize her
You cannot hypnotize a woman if she does not want to be hypnotized. If you lack rapport with her she will not relax or be suggestible to your commands. Therefore, you must have RAPPORT with her. Rapport is the feeling between two people that they can relate to each other and the foundation of two people liking each other. The deeper the rapport you have with her, the more likely she’ll trust you to hypnotize her.
Hypnotist’s Rule #2. She must believe she can be hypnotized and that you can hypnotize her
Do not tell her you are studying hypnosis or that you are going to “try” to hypnotize her. The point of hypnosis in the first place is to remove her critical mind from the decision-making process, not excite it up by introducing doubt in her mind. BE the hypnotist. Act utterly expectant and confident that your suggestions will occur. Inspire confidence in her. She will be much more suggestible and follow your commands if you’re 100% confident in your abilities, no ifs ands or buts! As Yoda says, “Try not. Do. Or do not. There is no try.”
Also, do not show her this book. If you do, it is more likely her critical mind will get in the way for one reason or another. It suggests to her that you are a student when she must believe that you ARE a hypnotist, and a good one at that.
Hypnotist’s Rule #3. She must feel comfortable and relaxed
She must be emotionally and physically comfortable and relaxed when you hypnotize her. Put her into a comfortable chair or sofa, not on the dusty wooden stool you found in the attic. Also, if she feels you are going to make her squawk like a chicken or make her reveal secrets to you she will be very uncomfortable. Part of making her feel comfortable and relaxed involves explaining the process of hypnosis to her. What you should say to her to make her feel comfortable is spelled out in the next section for you.
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