That's ALL there is to the game of attraction.
All the NICE guy stuff came from a time when men WERE FAR MORE POWERFUL than women. So the being "nice" was simply showing women that they would not be ABUSED by all that power that men had.
Because if a guy has all the power in the world, but a woman feels she has no chance to be on good terms with the guy because he is clearly NOT interested in her, then in fact she knows that she has NO CHANCE at that power and therefore it KILLS her attraction to him.
I want you to know that I have spent literally YEARS and poured through HUNDREDS of books on seduction, attraction, women's sexual fantasies, female psychology, and evolutionary psychology. And I have also spent YEARS testing everything I know on real women in just about every place you can imagine.
And EVERYTHING that I have studied and observed PROVES my conclusion.
I spent THAT LONG and THAT MUCH RESEARCH before deciding to unleash the knowledge because I didn't want to just rehash what everyone else was saying.
I already TRIED all the hypnosis tactics, all the being a great guy thing, all the HOGWASH dating books written by women who were simply out to abuse men, etc. And even some books written by MEN who were simply out to please their female audience by saying things like "kiss women's asses to make them happy". Surprisingly, even some of the most modern books and experts in this area are still misguided by focusing only on specific tactics instead of the PRINCIPLE behind the tactics.
Since I FIRST came on the scene, I have CONSTANTLY BEEN TRYING TO HAMMER THE MESSAGE INTO GUYS' MINDS: You must be THE MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That's right: be THE MAN.
I have always been the dude who preaches LESS about specific tactics, because I don't want guys to think for A SECOND that there is a magic tactic that will turn everything around.
THERE IS ONLY BEING SUPERIOR OR BEING INFERIOR.
THERE IS ONLY RESONATING POWER AND VITALITY OR RESONATING A BLACK HOLE OF WEAKNESS.
When I say BE THE MAN, I don't mean to only go check to see if you are biologically a man (although that might be necessary in the cases of some nice guys who are total ass-kissers to women) I mean BE THE MAN.
TAKE CHARGE AND BEHAVE THE WAY A CHARMING BUT SUPERIOR MAN WOULD BEHAVE TO A WOMAN.
I will repeat for the UMPTEENTH time: Women do NOT want equals.
Never did, never will. The EQUALITY movement TOTALLY SCREWED UP GUYS PERSPECTIVES BIG TIME.
Don't get me wrong: I LOVE women. THAT is why I got into this whole thing. I think women having equality in the sense of treating women with respect is great and should be OBVIOUS, and I'm not some demented dude who wants go throw back to the caveman days.
But men have to realize that times have changed and therefore it is more important than EVER to be THE MAN because of this power shift.
WOMEN HATE GUYS WHO THEY FEEL ARE JUST "EQUAL"!!!!!
Yes, having a sense of humor and all the other stuff is helpful, but ONLY in the sense of it conveying SUPERIOR POWER. Remember, power is not just MONEY. It's not just LOOKS. But it's ABSOLUTELY NOT about being a "clown".
When I say POWER, I mean the FEELING of power.
What is the feeling of power? When you feel EUPHORIA, you feel POWER. Think of the endorphins released that you feel after a workout.
Why do you think so many people are addicted to COCAINE? Because it makes them feel like they are ON TOP OF THE WORLD.
NOW, you must understand that POWER is ADDICTIVE AND SELF-CONSUMING. Ever hear of the saying "absolute power corrupts absolutely?"
Yes, well it's true.
That's why in democratic countries, there are CHECKS and BALANCES on the power of any elected official.
And these days, your average woman if she is decently attractive, is BOMBARDED with guys. (I say "average" because I don't want you to think a woman has to be super hot for this to be true, she just has to be the equivalent of a decent looking guy, but female. Actually, these women who are "moderately attractive" are in some ways even more complicated to deal with than the TRULY hot ones who tend to have less self-esteem issues)
Actually, she is not just bombarded with "guys", but NICE GUYS who are in AWE of her.
NICE GUYS WHO ARE THROWING ALL THEIR POWER OVER TO HER AS QUICKLY AS THEY POSSIBLY CAN.
So OF COURSE women cannot HELP but feel ZERO appreciation for all this. THIS is why the FACT is that MORE women cheat on MEN than vice versa. Swear to god.
When was the last time you heard THAT on Oprah?
Well anyway, even if you DID, it would come with the excuse that ALL of the guys "deserved" it.
Now, if women already HAVE an endless supply of nice guy clones ready at the push of a button, (actually it's even EASIER than a push of the button, to be honest), it's OBVIOUS that they only want MORE power.
Ahh.. so now they are in search of the GREATER MORE CHALLENGING CONQUESTS. The bad guys, bad boys, etc.
Subconsciously, our survival-minded brains have equated hard-to-get with GOOD TO GET. It's EMOTIONAL, not logical. This is why you cannot REASON with a woman about why she should not want a bad boy, etc etc. REASONING IS B.S.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Our minds are driven more by EMOTION than by logic because EMOTION is more likely to ENSURE you follow it. If you had to THINK about the fact that eating was necessary to survive, you'd probably die of hunger without knowing it. But by FEELING hunger, you make sure to EAT.
Now, you might be wondering what all this has to do with the TITLE of this newsletter- Clubs And Women's Number One Fear. Well, think about what is going on in a club.
Scents, perfume, cologne.
Men and women dressed their BEST.
An air of "taboo".
Well guess what?
EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THESE THINGS IS SOAKING, IS DRIPPING, WITH SENSORY STIMULATION.
ALL THE SENSES ARE BEING STIMULATED, TO GIVE THE FEELING OF EUPHORIA.
Remember the cocaine example? SENSORY OVERLOAD SO WE CAN FEEELL POWER, FEEEEEEEEEEL AWESOME, FEEEEEL ON TOP OF THE WORLD.
You see, it all boils down to FEEEEEEEELING. To EMOTIONS.
You can't feel VITALITY in a quiet, empty, putrid smelling, ugly infested, abandoned DEAD ZONE. Because any decently attractive women already HAVE what most guys are DYING to have (i.e. a reliable, unspoiled member of the opposite gender) they are BORED of it and looking for MORE vitality, MORE SENSORY OVERLOAD.
MORE FEELINGS OF EUPHORIA. MORE FEELINGS OF POWER.
So, when women GO to such a place, they are FEELING AWESOME. They are getting sensory overload:
BLARING MUSIC - the beat and the music takes over the logical mind and makes them feel even better. And if you have ANY idea of the music that chicks like in clubs, you'll KNOW that it's ALWAYS about sex and being naughty and NEVER EVER EVER about romance with some nice guy.
Wake up from the MATRIX!!!!
Okay, I'm not finished yet:
Flashing lights- this is PURE VISUAL STIMULATION.
Scents, perfume, cologne- EVERY SENSE IS BEING BOMBARDED, INCLUDING THE OLFACTORY SENSES, AKA SENSE OF SMELL.
Men and women dressed their BEST- if you think this is just a coincidence, think again. All designed to make women look at their MOST SEXUALLY APPEALING.
Of course, MOST GUYS are not dressed this way, and the chicks are DRESSED to kill, and so the chicks have all the power except for the guys who KNOW the game and how to WIN.
ALCOHOL- uhh, this is a no-brainer. It releases all inhibitions, making you feel more free and powerful.
An air of "taboo"- again, BREAKING Rules, feeling the POWER to do whatever you want, and also the TABOO makes people want to go even more because it is something they can't have, or at least are not supposed to have.
Sometimes when I think about it all, when I see how guys fall for every trick in the book, and how women laugh about it, I only become more committed to the day that I reach millions of men at one time and finally change the world so that not only women have power, but so that men have power too.
Because I am so hard-core with the truth, not too many people want to unleash me on their politically correct audiences, but there are a few who do, and I congratulate those who do.
So the truth is that, in many ways, because women are feeling such EUPHORIA in clubs, they are ALREADY in the state of mind they want, and so therefore are in many ways out of their logical minds, and are FAR EASIER TO PICK UP.
Yeah, I know that sounds crazy, but it's the truth.
Personally, I don't love clubs too much because I KNOW what's going on, and I find the whole thing reminding me of zombies out of their minds in a trance. But if anyone is INTIMIDATED by clubs, you don't have to be, because it's actually EASIER in many ways.
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE ADDING TO THE STIMULATION and not DETRACTING from it.
Remember, there can never be enough. Women only want MORE. So you better be FUN, ENERGETIC and in a FUN mood or stay home.
Or you'll have to go for what's on the sidelines.
Oh yeah, and you better be THE MAN.
Screw the idea of "buying drinks".
This newsletter is about TRUTH. The TRUTH leaking out is women's number one fear.
Yeah, nobody is saying it, but can you imagine what would happen if every NICE GUY stopped kissing up? And all of a sudden, women had nobody to use as a punching bag?
Imagine if they had no guy to DUMP all of their problems on- be it financial, emotional, etc.
Trust me, bad boys would be out of business. Bad boys are only FUN when you ALREADY have the emotional security that comes from a nice guy.
Can you say "stringing along?"
That's a term that more women have admitted to me that they have done with guys than I could have possibly believed five years ago. Bad boys out of business. Imagine that.
But let me tell you something, that is NEVER going to happen, because it takes GUTS to let the truth SOAK IN. Most guys will simply go on living the lie, and thereby perpetuating the problem. But you don't have to be one of those guys.
TRUTH is what will skyrocket your INNER GAME.
You don't have to convince yourself of anything when you know for a FACT what works and what doesn't. You don't have to "BELIEVE" when you in fact KNOW. What you've read is the tip of the iceberg.
Till next time...
From someone who's been there,
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