It's a crime that somehow, even in this information age, so many guys are still living without a clue as to what is really going on in the world of women. As always, my primary goal has always been discovering the truth about dating, attraction, and women.
So let's get to some of the main points:
The reality today is that most young women have FAR LESS INTEREST in relationships than men.
That doesn't mean it has to be this way, and yes, by being THE MAN you will be triggering far more attraction and have a damn good chance at a relationship, but knowing the following information will help you be The Man. The REASON women have far less interest in relationships than men is because young women have not EVER even KNOWN a time that women were NOT considered superior to men.
Think about that:
A typical young woman today was raised SINCE BIRTH in a feminist culture that said ALL men are total JERKS who will dump you and not be faithful, a culture that said men are STUPID. If this stuff weren't for real, it would make for a great science fiction horror movie.
This culture also said that equality for women had only ONE meaning- that women should basically go out and just try to have no holds barred sex with endless partners in the stereotypical way that men were SUPPOSEDLY, I repeat SUPPOSEDLY, having sex- i.e. cheating and no commitments, etc.
Women were being told that the IDEAL, that the NATURAL standard, was for women to go all out on total INDIVIDUALITY AND COMPLETE ABANDONMENT OF ANYTHING ELSE.
Forget family, forget community, forget children, forget anything but SELF.
As if the SELF needs no OTHER.
At the same time, the REALITY is that MOST MEN were ACTUALLY treating women FAR BETTER than they had EVER done as a result of men trying to PROVE that in fact they were NOT JERKS.
Or men were being pathetic creatures who could not NOT turn down an opportunity for sex, which just goes to show how desperately pathetic some men are and how that damages men's reputations. So TONS of men started to feel guilty for being men, while women were bashing men on the head and men were saying "Please bash me some more, I deserve it."
Do you see where this is leading?
Women were getting the impression that they SHOULD abuse guys and that they COULD. So, basically, on one hand you have women being PISSED OFF at men, due to feminist lies, and on the other hand, you have MEN behaving as total WUSS nice guys in their impossible goal of trying to prove they are not jerks, thereby setting up men to get MAULED and MOWED DOWN in the real world of women.
Or you have pathetic men that pay women to have sex with them. All this stuff made men look weak and/or evil.
Do you understand what this means?
THIS is the reason that SEX is easier to get than ever IF you just make it clear that you are NOT desperate and that you are NOT going to become this nice guy who loves to cuddle and will start thinking about marriage and all that stuff. In other words, that you will not stifle their OPTIONS for "fun". An EXCELLENT article that elaborates on this point, which was pointed out to me by a very helpful guy, can be read here.
Am I saying that ALL women are like this? NO, I am NOT. I AM saying however, that most women are.
Ah, but I can already hear guys arguing, "But how about the fact that all these girls keep saying they wish they could find a good guy, and all these girls who want a committed relationship from me?".
To which I respond:
They are seeking your VALIDATION, and once you give it to them, it's GOODBYE CHARLIE.
The fact of the matter is that women LOVE to blame men for everything, because THAT way, they can have their cake and eat it too. You see, that way they can have 5 boyfriends at once and tell the guys that they are faithful and blame it all on the guys and not themselves one bit. ESPECIALLY when those guys are CLUELESS and have been HAD by the feminist myth that all guys are bad and all women are immaculate.
The truth is that TONS of women are just RARING to go for sex, IF you come across as a cool guy, with ZERO expectation of commitments. And when women test you on wanting a commitment, the moment you fall for it, it's goodbye. I'm also fed up with feminist arguments about this guy or that guy who is jerk, yes sure there are guys who are jerks, but I can PROMISE you that on average, in my experience, far more girls are into drugs, lies, cheating, and casual sex and party style living than guys are.
In fact, women are AMAZED at how clean cut so many guys are compared to them, but of course they are not going to go full public on this one.
Like I said once in a previous newsletter, the worst insult a fellow man can give you in front of a woman is to say what a good guy you are, and the greatest compliment he can give you is to tell her that she should stay away from you because you are a real bad guy. Now you might think that all this is reason to get down or miserable. It isn't, because in fact the greatest victims of all this are not men, it is women.
Women are confused as hell these days.
It's like "Okay, so I rebelled against men, I'm having endless sex partners, but now what?"
There's no where else to go except more drugs, more partying, more cheating, more lies. And more psychotherapy. All relationships are only given a half-assed effort, so there is no real commitment in the first place which means any little thing and boom goodbye Charlie.
This is an ARTIFICIAL situation where things are out of balance because nature does not normally turn men into WUSSES. In fact, it was men who first started the whole problem with an excess of liberalism in their philosophies. There is no moral clarity in ANYTHING anymore- everything is supposedly relative these days. Total chaos. This is why the most common comment among young people regarding relationships these days are that they are "totally disillusioned".
Zero commitment + infinite lies + zero moral clarity = total disillusionment.
It is CRUCIAL to realize that the feminist view REQUIRES the "evil men" myth to sustain itself. For if men are not these evil creatures, then there is no moral license to mow the down.
So what is the answer to all this?
The answer my friends is to figure out what you want:
If you really just want sex, then you're in luck, because women are almost obsessed with it these days. Of course, you have to learn how to be a cool guy or you still won't get anywhere, and I explain and demonstrate in my eBook, seminars, and workshops how to pick up women easily.
There is an inverse relationship between how easy it is to get sex in a society and how strong the relationships in that society are. The easier it is to get sex, the weaker the relationships usually will be, because the value of sex plummets, "it is just sex after all" the culture says. So sex in terms of being meaningful sacred element of relationships becomes almost a joke. That is bad news for relationships.
If you are looking for an exclusive relationship, you are going to have to be very SELECTIVE in the women you date AND you are going to have to also convey that you are one hell of a guy.
The problem is that it is incredibly complex to find a woman with good values, since many women will put up a good front that they have these values when in fact they don't. Remember, girls have learned to lie in order to manage the FLOOD of guys hitting on them since they were 13. It's not women's fault that they were born into a society where guys seem to be ASKING for abuse. The best way to judge a woman is based on her actions and the actions of her friends over the long term.
Regardless of whether you want a relationship or are just dating, women will always want the guy who comes across as the overall superior, and that includes superior in his presentation, be it his clothes, his looks, etc, his social skills, his voice tonality, his confidence in his humor, ad infinitum.
In fact, the reason why women cheat so much is because they have THE OPTION to cheat since men are SO EASY and basically THROW themselves at women and there is so little a woman has to invest in them.
Overall, what guys have to learn is to not be needy, because then, they will be on the same powerful wavelength that women are in this sense. You see, when you KNOW you can have tons of women for sex, it makes you less needy for sex or for a relationship, which does not mean you don't WANT a relationship, just that you will not get into one out of desperation.
That way, you can date until you find the RIGHT woman who has got the winning personality and who does desire a faithful relationship. One thing that a lot of guys don't realize is that many women jump from one partner to the next as a way of avoiding having to deal with the consequences of their own personalities- it is much easier to jump and run to some new guy who will kiss her butt than to have to GIVE something in a relationship- by jumping from one guy to the next, there is always some new guy who will do all the giving.
Now if you are just looking for sex, this might not matter to you, but if you are looking for the potential for something more, be on the alert for the character of a woman, i.e. does she take responsibility for her actions? I don't believe the answer is for men to take REVENGE, because women are NOT THE ENEMY, they are our partners in humanity and of course they are our sexual mates.
However, I DO believe 100 PERCENT in men taking back their DIGNITY, their CONFIDENCE, their SELF-RESPECT, and their ability to ATTRACT women.
These days, that requires some courage, confidence, and some know-how. That first courageous step has to come from you, you have to make the decision that you are worth more than feminism has made you think you are worth. You have to realize that the truth is not only do women not like it when you act like a wuss, but women are ONLY attracted to confident men.
The next time you see a woman you'd like to approach, set things off in the right frame from the VERY START.
Instead of waiting there for a few minutes staring at her, just GO UP TO HER and IMMEDIATELY start the pick up. And don't chat with her about boring stuff like the weather. Trust me, women KNOW you are chatting them up, and they are sexual beings just like you, they don't mind. What they mind is if you seem to be inferior somehow. So use the chat to convey that you are cool, by not acting all serious and desperate.
Instead, either tease her on something she is doing or wearing or just have a playful conversation with her about anything from popular culture that just about anyone could relate to.
And do all this as if you've done it a million times and it's NOT A BIG DEAL. That means not having a facial expression that looks like you have just launched a thermonuclear war. If you'd like to be able to get your skills up to a WHOLE NEW LEVEL, then I seriously suggest you check out my latest program, THE DATING WIZARD'S REAL WORLD BOOTCAMP.
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These skills will give you the confidence that will not only help you initially attract women, but also will help you in relationships because women can tell when they are with a guy who knows how to attract women and it is a huge turn on for them even while being in a relationship with you.
I explain all of this stuff in detail in my book, The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women. it’s jam packed not only with the specifics of what to do to approach women and bridge into getting physical, but also with how to get into the right mind frame and keep your mind that way. Remember, the greatest gift you can give a woman is the feeling of POWER that you will resonate as THE MAN. And that’s all in the brain, so watch what you feed it.
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Till next time,
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