When I decided to devote my life to helping men succeed with women, it wasn't a half-way commitment. The truth is, this stuff fascinates me, and I just can't get enough.
Even when I am not writing, or in middle of giving a consultation, I still am constantly seeking to further my knowledge and understanding of women, whether it be through research or observation. And not long ago, I came to a massive conclusion about what women want, what really turns women on.
The ESSENCE of a woman's attraction to a man, if you will. This essence is the REAL reason behind any "tactic" for success with women.
Whether you think it's "money", or "looks", or "prestige", or "fame", or "being funny", or "being cool", the ONLY reason ANY of that may work to turn a woman ON is because.....(get ready for this):
SHE FEELS YOU ARE EMANATING UNSTOPPABLE POWER.
Maybe you've heard the quote from Henry Kissinger, the famous Secretary of State: "POWER is the ultimate aphrodisiac." He was right, except that I bet even HE didn't realize the true EXTENT of what he said.
You see, most people tend to think of power only in terms of money and politics. And those are forms of power...
But they are NOT the only forms of power, and actually are NOT the most POTENT forms of power to a WOMAN. Women have been attracted to a certain kind of man for over one million years, and it's not about to change overnight.
In a hostile environment where survival was constantly at stake, where a woman needed a man who could hunt, who was brave, who could defend.... what kind of man do you think she would be attracted to?
You got it:
A MAN WHO WAS HARDENED.
A MAN WHO WAS BRAVE.
A MAN WITH CONFIDENCE.
This is the kind of power women want to see in you. Now, let me ask you a question:
When you see an attractive woman, and you wish you could speak to her, what are the thoughts running through your mind?
Are you thinking any of the following thoughts below?
"How do I talk to her?"
"She's so beautiful, man, I don't have a chance."
"What do I say?"
"She's with her friends, they'll make fun of me"
"What if she rejects me?"
"What if I look like an idiot?"
"What do I have to offer?"
"Why would she be nice to me?"
Now, do you see how if you are thinking these very THOUGHTS, you will then NOT demonstrate the characteristics that turn women ON? Every ONE of those thoughts run COMPLETELY COUNTER to what it is she DESIRES in a man. There is only ONE WAY to succeed with women: You must BLOW INTO OBLIVION any doubts about your own abilities and sexual desirability to a woman.
As a matter of fact, you actually have to do MORE than this- you have to actually get to the point that you feel that she WANTS you just as much as you may want HER. Do you see why this is?
Let me explain:
Your attraction to her is based on evolution: In a nutshell, her sexy body means healthy child-bearing abilities.
This is why you are attracted to her.
You are NOT attracted to her on a sexual level because you both enjoy English literature.
So let me tell you the PRIMARY reason SHE would be attracted to YOU:
It would be because you EMANATE MASCULINE POWER through being dominant, confident, and having loads of self-esteem.
This is SEXY AS HELL to her. Everything ELSE is HOGWASH.
When I say everything else, I really do mean EVERYTHING: You know, those things like LOGIC? Or like being a "nice" guy? FORGET IT.
This is why women often love BAD BOYS. BAD BOYS do whatever they want and fear nothing. And they explain NOTHING. You don't have to be a jerk, but you MUST be A MAN. It doesn't COST anything to do this. It's not something that is only available to the rich, or to any other exclusive group.
Being a MAN in your behaviors and thoughts, is more sexy than just being a millionaire, because is PRIMAL, visceral, and universal across cultures. Your behavior is YOU, your money is only an indirect extension. And if you think that looks is the greatest determinant of your sexiness, you are dead wrong. Throughout history, men proved their sexual attractiveness to women through many methods other than just their "looks". Some of these other avenues were through combat, through jousting, and through status. And again, you can see that these avenues all reflect POWER.
The same is not true for women. A woman could be rich as hell, a great warrior, or whatever, the fact is, men will be attracted primarily to her looks. It's all about being dominant and not doubting yourself for a SECOND. If you approach a woman with an apologetic attitude, you're TOAST, I guarantee it.
I used to think that women LIKED it if you acted all soft, weak, and mushy, because all you heard from women was them complaining about their
hard-edged BAD BOYS. Now I know the truth- women actually are TURNED ON by this, and they are so massively turned on, that it BOTHERS these women that they CAN'T CONTROL these guys, because these women are afraid of LOSING these guys. That's why the women complain.
Get ready for another blast to your reality:
You know how some guys are funny and women love them?
It has NOTHING to do with being funny. NOTHING AT ALL. I know PLENTY OF GUYS WHO ARE FUNNY AS HECK, and women laugh, but they will never go out with these guys.
When a woman is turned on by a guy's sense of humor, it's ONLY IF HIS SENSE OF HUMOR CONVEYS DOMINANCE, SELF-ESTEEM, AND CONFIDENCE. In other words, when a guy TEASES the hell out of a woman, it TURNS HER ON.
Now of course women will never tell you this, because this is powerful stuff that in the wrong hands could cause damage...kind of like the damage caused by an attractive woman who uses a guy for his money, his emotional support, etc, and then DUMPS him when another REAL MAN who refuses to be a doormat and can never be controlled comes along.
So don't fool yourself for a second thinking that being funny turns women on. Today, because of modern civilization, you can't just be a caveman. However, you STILL need to be a MAN who is dominant, fearless, confident, CALM and cool.
And with HUMOR, you can show these characteristics without getting arrested!
It's almost like what you are really doing by teasing a woman in a FUNNY way is sugar-coating the WILD MAN in you so it's politically and socially acceptable.
But trust me, there are plenty of men out there who are NOT funny, and who are too dominant for our social environment today....who end up with criminal records....and who, of course, ARE MASSIVELY DESIRED BY THEIR GIRLFRIENDS.
Think about Marlon Brando's character in "A Streetcar Named Desire". This guy would be considered socially unacceptable, but the fact is, his BAD BOY ways would start a WILDFIRE OF PASSION in most women. Think about all this the next time you see a beautiful woman.
As a matter of fact, DON'T EVEN LEAVE YOUR DOORSTEP until you put yourself into a state of mind of being unstoppable. And try to be that way for ALL the areas of your life, not not just for attracting women.
The next time you see a woman you would like to speak with, grab life by the reigns and take destiny into your hands by going up to her with the intent that you are making her day as much as she might make yours.
It's what women want.
If you want to learn to do this, then I recommend you read my ebook, The Dating Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women. I focus on how to succeed with women by getting you back to your natural masculine self. I'm not a fan of tricks and techniques for getting women, I AM a believer in attracting women by being the man you were born to be.
I also show you step by step how to go about approaching a woman, how to get numbers and emails, how to go about dating, and I also explain the best way to smoothly make the transition to getting physical. And there is a special section on relationships if you desire to pursue one and make it last while keeping it exciting and fresh.
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Till next time,
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