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I’ve been promising to post this for months, so here you go:

When I first started learning PU, one thing I tried early on was the personals. I attempted all kinds of NLP-loaded letters that friends told me were foolproof and got basically no response. And, if I ever did get a response, I sent an HB my picture, and then never heard from her again.

So I engineered the personals like I learned cold-approach game: one step at a time, until I felt it was foolproof. I can now, four out of five times, email a girl and take it all the way to the !close without a problem. Shout-outs here go to Lovedrop, David DeAngelo , Ross Jeffries , Zan, and a guy on Cliff’s List who I think is named Gamemaster, all of whom contributed essential pieces.

STEP ONE: COMPOSING THE AD

It goes against all logic, but the best profile is one in which you are a TOTAL ASSHOLE. The first line of my profile is: I’m a selfish prick. THEN I go on to describe my looks and physique. FINALLY, I tell them that I don’t give a fuck what anybody thinks. I do what I want when I want. (Most of this is from Lovedrop, so I’m only paraphrasing in case he doesn’t want it posted.)

Everything in the profile is designed to make me seem like a choosy selfish asshole seducer. My tagline, adapted from Zan, is: “Run away, little girl.”

Finally, for the coup de grace, is something adapted from Gamemaster. When I describe what I’m looking for, I say, “If I had to write a newspaper personal, it would read something like this…” Then I go on to describe, somewhat facetiously, that I’m a well-hung sexually talented stud looking for a married woman who wants to make her husband jealous in order to procure expensive gifts from him.”

Again, you can figure out your own wording. If you’re really retarded and need it spelled out, let me know and I’ll consider posting a link to my profile.

For the picture, I don’t post an actual photo. I post a SKETCH someone has done of me. If you don’t have a friend with art skills, just get a sketch of yourself done by a street sketch artist or at a comic convention or something. This way, girls looking for profiles with photos will come across your profile, but at the same time, you’ll be able to hook them with your personality before they can just disqualify you as not being their type.

Often, girls will write me just to ask, “Are you for real?” because my profile is so outlandish.

STEP TWO: THE FIRST COMMUNICATION

Whether I write the girl or she writes me, my letter is always pretty much the same. I keep it short. Two paragraphs. The intention is that I am the prize, and she will have to work to get me.

1. I bust her balls on something in her profile. (”What’s with the hat? Is the top of your head pointy or something?”)
2. I give her a hoop to jump through, so that she has to meet my standards. I also usually give her a nickname. Example: “I’ll tell you what, imp. Email me at [Insert your email address] and tell me three qualities you possess that would make me want to get to know you better. I will, of course, send you a non-illustrated pic — two if I like what you have to say.”

STEP THREE: EXCHANGE PICS

Okay. She’ll send you her reply. Usually, you can tell by the tone what she’s after. More than half the time, there will be a hint of sexual suggestion in there.

In your response, bust her balls a little, but tell her you’re impressed (as if she’s winning you over). Now I put her on the points system. “You’ve earned three points for your sense of humor and three for your adventurousness,” I may say. “At 15, you win my phone number.”

Now, for the picture, this is key. I used to lose the girl when I sent some dumb digicam photo of myself. Fortunately, about a year ago, someone took a photo of me for a magazine, so i tell the girl I don’t have a digital camera, but I scanned a photo from a magazine for her. This is great, because it’s great social proof and also a little mysterious.

If you don’t have a photo that’s appeared in a magazine, a school newspaper, a society page, whatever (they don’t have to know where it’s from), just make one. All you need is a good photo, a magazine, a scanner, and Photoshop.
I’ve had friends make really funny ones, with good captions. Usually, they’ll take a photo of themselves out, or with a celeb (non-posed), and make it look like it’s from the party pages of In-Style or something.

STEP FOUR: TAKING IT OFFLINE

Once they respond to this, it’s time to take it offline. Write them back, bust their balls, and then write something casual like the following: “I can be slow when it comes to online correspondence because I get pretty busy, so what
do you say we continue this on the phone? My number is below. Or, if you’re shy and would feel more comfortable if I called, just email me your info. ”

At this point, she’s already interested, so whatever way you choose to get the phone number is not a big deal.

STEP FIVE: THE PHONE CALL

I only make one phone call. That’s all it takes. All she needs to do is to hear your voice (to know that you’re for real and not some sort of psycho). Here’s the phone structure I use:
1. Don’t say hello and introduce myself. Instead, refer to a private joke from my emails (such as saying, “Hi, imp,” if that’s her nickname), so that she automatically recognizes who it is.
2. Break the tension right away with a pre-prepared story. Chose from any of your favorite ASF stories. Jlaix has tons of good ones if you don’t have any of your own.
3. Tease her a little into talking about herself, but only for a few minutes.
(It helps her feel rapport to talk about herself a little.)
4. Make a plan. Use the David DeAngelo tactic: “I’m busy Wednesday and Friday, but Thursday is good. Let’s just meet for a quick drink. That way, if you’re a complete nutbag, I can escape with my dignity.” (Calibrate here: only say to a girl with a sense of humor. Make sure you have a kidding tone; usually she’ll tease you back.)
5. The plan should ALWAYS be for an intimate bar, where you can sit down. SteviePUA has what he calls his Tonguedown Bar, where he takes girls to make out. I’m talking about this kind of place, although with Solid Personals Game you will not be making out here.

STEP SIX: THE FIRST MEETING

1. You need to pre-plan two things: One is a second venue to take her to if you like her. A venue change IS key. Two, I recommend bringing friends. Pretend like you bumped into them there, if you want. It surprises her when you’re with someone, and also socially proofs you.
2. Greet her, then sit down with your friends. The game at first is ALL body language. When i sit with her at first, I’m VERY distant with my body language. It’s all negative. I need to let her feel that she is slowly winning me over, that I’m getting comfortable with her. Also, the girl will almost always give you negative body language at first, and if you’re totally open to her with your BL, it makes you seem needy and supplicative. Trust me on this. It’s a key subtlety.
3. INSTANTLY go into a routine. I prefer the Cube. Say, “Hey, here’s a cool way to get to know each other. My friend just taught me this. Let’s try it.” Another option is to do the lying game with one of your friends.
4. When you do the Cube, you go into mini-isolation with her and shut out your friends. They will soon leave and, as you’ve instructed them, go to venue
2. Now it’s just you and her. While doing the Cube, you’re keeping distant BL but at the same time displaying your humor and great personality. As she starts warming up to you with her BL, you may start giving her positive BL. But keep fractionating with the good BL, as if you’re not sure.
5. After a drink or two, you’ll realize that she’s beginning to like you. She was doubtful at first when you met, but now you’re really winning her over. Happens every time. Don’t know why. You almost feel like you could kiss her, but don’t. Instead…
6. Venue change. Tell her you made plans afterward, because you just planned on a short meeting, but since you’re getting along so well, she may as well tag along. Then go to a bar, a concert, wherever. You will both run
into your friends here. Hang around, joke around with them, and make sure she’s included and having a good time. The time distortion of the venue change and the fractionation of being social again is really powerful.
7. Now, isolate her again. Sit on a couch, do the evolution phase shift routine, and make out. Don’t forget to do two-steps-forward/one-step-backward when making out.

CLOSING THE DEAL

Usually, unless it’s just one hundred percent one, I like to wait for the second meeting to !close. It’s just solid game and ensures I don’t get LMR. So, usually, I’ll:
1. Take her back to her car, make out with her like crazy, and then tell her, “I’m trying so hard to be good right now.” You want to leave her well-teased, so that she masturbates thinking about you that night. (I always ask girls in bed if they touched themselves and thought about what it would be like to be together, and they always confess that they did.)
2. See her again two or three nights later. The most solid way to do this is to have her come over before going out. To drink some wine, and start fooling around. If it’s on with no LMR, just !close. If she’s hesitating, then go out for a drink, and take her home afterward and !close.

Okay. I hope this isn’t too basic. But this IS the SOLID GAME formula for the personals. As long as you have some semblance of a personality, humor, grooming, likability, and style, this will make the personals such a turkey shoot that you’ll probably stop using because they’re so boring. Seriously.

Report back with your results! Any feedback and criticisms are always welcome!

Love,
Your Long-Lost Neil Strauss

Neil Strauss aka Style author of The Game which follows his development from a guy who was hopeless with women to become one of the greatest pick up artist in the seduction community. His book gave many men hope that they could do the same and hence learn how to become irresistible to women. He started learning pick up with the mystery method.

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timmay
test 123...
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timmay at 09:40AM, Aug 9th 2010.
andrew gorton
trust me style this one dont work not 2 complete strangers of the net tried it and u dont get the reply your looking for i can tell ya cheers
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andrew gorton at 10:26AM, Sep 20th 2010.
Audiophil
This is more of a general question to you Style, but relates to this specific post too: don't you find that the amount of calculation, manipulation and specific methodology just kind of sucks the pleasure out of it? I can't boast of particularly much success with women but it seems to me as if its a whole lot of things to be juggling in your head. Or does it become like second instinct?
p.s.: will try out the "going all out asshole" thing. I am doubtful, but have faith in your theories :)
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Audiophil at 02:29AM, Dec 18th 2010.
Luke Harding
Niel I really didn't appreciate what you wrote at the start of Mysterys book. Using fear tactics like every other bullshit salesman.The product should speak for itself don't treat the customer like an idiot.
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Luke Harding at 02:07AM, Dec 23rd 2010.
Jay
hahahaha I just updated my profile on a dating site and i'm testing this out. I've had success before, I just want more. And i'm curious to test this total asshole theory out. I'm a little skeptical, I do see the turn ons though, you are outlandish, you stand out, you are not like all the other generic profiles out there, and honestly, I myself am actually a blunt semi asshole. So I'm really eager to take it all the way and honestly, be myself, lol.

I'll let you know how it works in a month or so.
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Jay at 06:55PM, Feb 24th 2011.
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