Twin Brothers Opener

how does this work? can someone please explain?

Hunter, it works because it gets the woman you're talking to to open up about what she wants in a man (you have to embellish a little, play with it). You can use this information to both position yourself in that place like you "know her so well" or to flirt around the possibilities.. maybe "if I was that guy".. whatever.

For instance, in the first instance, my reckoning is you want to lead into a discussion about what makes a great kisser whatever she says. it's a perfect opener to do so after all. And then you're all like "my friend says" that the first gentle touch on the lips of a great kiss is just electric - can you imagine that, I mean you know what I mean... (she imagines..) and then you have all sorts of trickery like anchoring at your disposal if you want, or you could just go with the sensuality of the situation and see what happens ... up to you.

Point is, IMHO if she says she wants the joker in the first instance and you're a funny guy, make a joke of it and talk about the benefits of the kisser, like yeah but can a good laugh really beat the sensuality of a kiss....

Course if you're not a funny guy, just skip the joke and try to steer the conversation to the benefits of the kisser differently, again maybe like "my old flatmate said..." or something if you don't want to be direct about your intentions.

Crucial point is, you have to have a *conversation* and some imagination. And *listen*.. echo stuff back to her that she says or says she wants. The NLP and SS guys talk about "trance phrases" too, which means repeating key words back to her that she uses to describe her emotions and good sensations later. You can't just reel this stuff off without anything else to say and expect anything to come of it.

For what it's worth, I've (literally, this weekend) only just started looking at ross jeffries speed seduction stuff and have barely had a chance to try it out yet, but I'm not a total lamer in social situations and I'm pretty sure I can relate to where he's coming from.

Hope that helps.

Ultimately it's about getting her to talk about and imagine desirable or preferably erotic sensations without directly coming across like a predator.

big thumbs up to Leon!