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This is especially for Pickup101 Art of Rapport guys who have been through building a rapport routine stack. If you haven’t, you might want to check it out, cos this will give you the blueprint, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy to get the house off the ground.
Stop attraction. Move to rapport. How?
Intro. Break her away from group and focus attention on you. Simply turn your body and motion for her to do same while saying "I got a question for you."
Now jump into wide rapport. Are you from here? Cool. Talk about where you are from. Let her fill in some more. Important. Start kino and keep it up all throughout. The more intense it gets, the more you want to use your body to comfort her.
At any point, interrupt her. You have a sudden insight. Look really intrigued. Say something like, "it's weird, but you seem like you're X, but really you're Y. And I know, because I'm the same way."
Now X is something that is easy to spot about it. For instance, if she's wild and crazy and dancing topless on the bar, tell her that she seems like a party girl.
But Y is where the power is. This is where you tell her something about herself that is the opposite of how she appears, and you know this because you really do have the same thing true about yourself.
Let her absorb this. Tell her why the secret thing is important to you.
"It's weird, you seem like this crazy party girl, but really you've got the fierce determination to do what you need to do, and I'm the same way. It's like my friends think I'm just a goof, but they don't get that I have these very ambitious goals and I'm working towards them every day. Like, with my business, I want to lower the divorce rate in my lifetime. And it's hard, and it's crazy, and I don't care, because I'm a stubborn sonofabitch and I'm going to do it.
You know what I mean?"
You are now locked in. You can make things a little sexy. Tell her she smells delicious. Or tell her you like her lips, and your first kiss will be amazing.
Now that you've heated things up, leave it in her mind and immediately change the subject to something silly. Banter now so that the sexy moment lingers there and makes her want more while you playfully jump ahead to remind her how much fun you are. I like to look at my shoes, point and say "do these shoes look like elf shoes? Or gay elf shoes? That salesgirl promised me they looked cool (it helps that my shoes are cool). Smile. Do this right after you tell her the sexy stuff so that she is distracted and feeling good. Let her answer and go back into rapport by talking about something totally normal like family.
Now paint a picture of your date. Describe this thing you love to do. How it makes you feel. Why it’s so special. Let her see it. Observe that you really enjoy talking to her. Say something like "we have a really good vibe." If she agrees, go right to the planning. If not, go back to banter and rapport. Keep it fun, and keep finding special things about her. Share more of yourself and let her in.
Plan the date. Get dates, times set. Get her number and tell her exactly when you will call.
When she gives it to you, call right there in front of her. If she has her phone, tell her to pick it up. If not, leave a message. Either way, do it while you are still right there with her.
Once you have the number, STAY PUT. Do not be in a hurry to leave. You want her to feel that this isn't the end, but rather, the beginning. Stay for another 5-10 minutes. You can talk about anything. A nice touch is to tell her you never expected to meet anyone like her in a place like this. Cheesy, but romantic. Lean back and soak in the moment. Enjoy the feeling of having a girl who likes you and wants to know more.
Now say you have to go. Tell her to walk you to the door. Tell her friends it was awesome meeting them, and she is going to walk you to the door, then be right back.
At door, hug. Move face to her neck and hair. Breathe in deep. Tell her she smells amazing. When you feel her go weak, kiss. Deep. Make it a Princess Bride kiss.
At this point, you can try to get her to go with you, or just go. Your choice. It’s your world now, kid.
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