Style And Adjustments

Style and Adjustments discusses the styles of picking up women and any adjustments that we could make to enhance our success rate.  It is a more advanced section of the site, worth reading for those who has been seducing women regularly and wants to make adjustments to their game.  Take your skills to the next level people.

Demonstrations Vs Verbalisations

Average Rating: 4.67 [Total Votes: 6]

Vin DiCarlo - There seems to be some confusion regarding the idea of demonstrating high / low value and when to do them and what these techniques actually achieve. There is also some confusion as to how to demonstrate high value properly. In my experience, there are some guys who are attempting to be cocky and funny but are coming off insecure when doing it. In this post I will illustrate why this happens and how to avoid it and make proper use of the DHV technique.

Guide To Direct Game

Average Rating: 4.66 [Total Votes: 12]

Vin DiCarlo - Currently, direct game is synonymous with "I like you" and "BE ALPHA" -- So let's rock and roll! ;)

The Transition To Natural Game

Average Rating: 4.67 [Total Votes: 24]

Vin DiCarlo - I've met my share of brothers from the community. After sarging with them and watching them in the field, I have seen the same exact things over and over. They all run nearly the exact type of game, and have the same problems.

Ok, And Who Cares?

Average Rating: 3.82 [Total Votes: 11]

Giuseppe Notte - So, you've decided to change yourself for the better. You've read countless dating advice books, and you've tried numerous techniques and "magic bullets" to become more successful with women. Now, upon meeting a girl, you carefully watch her reactions to every word you say. You calibrate your "game" to how she behaves, and every muscle of your body homes in on seducing that girl.

Improve Your Game

Average Rating: 5 [Total Votes: 1]

Soul - I’d like to do the opposite and offer my top ten practical tips for guys who are fairly new to dating science or those who are reaching serious plateaus in their game

Aura & Mystique

Average Rating: 5 [Total Votes: 1]

Cajun - Aura and mystique is achieved by communicating to women, through non-verbal communication, that you are a man of exceptionally rare quality...

Don't Be Wierd

Average Rating: 3.43 [Total Votes: 7]

Sinn - This is mostly dedicated to the guy who stopped me at a bar on the lower east side of New York City and asked me for advice, while dressed like a refuge from an 80s Michael Jackson video...

Analysing Approaches To Build Skills

Average Rating: 4 [Total Votes: 1]

Rokker - Have you ever thought about why some people who have been in this community for a really long time still can't approach women correctly?

Fallacy of "Being In State"

Average Rating: 4.33 [Total Votes: 3]

Dahunter - I've heard a lot around the community about "being in state" and "being all pumped up."

Real World Attraction Tips

Average Rating: 4.67 [Total Votes: 3]

Michael W - It’s critical to understand what mistakes most guys make, and how to avoid them like the plague, especially during the initial pickup.

How "The Game" Has Affected Pick Up

Average Rating: 4.90 [Total Votes: 23]

NightVision - Here Neil Strauss aka Style talks about how the popularity of his best seller book "The Game" has affected the seduction community.

Personality and Biggest Mistake Men Make With Women

Average Rating: 4.67 [Total Votes: 6]

Carlos Xuma - Have you ever met someone that you felt was just really boring? Bland? Dull? It's interesting, because it's rarely about what a person HAS that adds up to their being boring; it's what they're MISSING. Personality..

Time Problem With Women

Carlos Xuma - Have you ever met someone that you felt was just really boring? Bland? Dull? It's interesting, because it's rarely about what a person HAS that adds up to their being boring; it's what they're MISSING. Personality...

Are You Working Too Much?

Average Rating: 4.75 [Total Votes: 4]

Brad P - This is a pattern I've noticed for quite some time that’s preventing men from improving their game. 

Why You May Not Be Getting Laid

Average Rating: 4.83 [Total Votes: 6]

Gunwitch - There are many internal reasons I have found lately that a guy may not be getting the sex life he wants...

Mutual Value Escalation

Average Rating: 4.25 [Total Votes: 4]

Sebastian Drake - A lot of the current model of ASF has its place, but it's used at the wrong times: Making it take much longer for a guy to find what he wants. Playing with a flawed model is better than playing with nothing at all, but let's step it up a bit, shall we?

Truth About Routines

DJ Fuji - Routines, scripts, lines, things to say. Some love ‘em, some hate ‘em, nearly everyone misunderstands them.

Never Go Back To Zero

Richard La Ruina aka Gambler - For my first year in the game, I made a mistake, or at least I could have done something a lot better… I left myself vulnerable....

Problem With Who Lies More

Average Rating: 4.85 [Total Votes: 13]

Neil Strauss aka Style - Whenever I'm winging workshops, and I go around the room and ask guys what opener they use, half of them say, "Who lies more, men or women?" And then I see them go out and use it that night, and half the women usually respond by either by asking, "Why are you asking us this?" or "Are you taking a survey or something." Or by just giving them bad body language and trying to end the conversation as soon as possible, then laughing at them behind their back.

How To Really Pick Up

Average Rating: 4.76 [Total Votes: 17]

Tyler Durden - WARNING: THIS POST DOES NOT CONTAIN MENTAL-MASTERBATION OR DELUSIONS OR STUPID SHIT. ALL CONTENT OF THIS POST IS ACTUALLY FIELD TESTED AND SHOWN TO BE EMPIRICALLY VERIFIABLE. ANY PEOPLE WHO ARE INTO ARMCHAIR SEDUCTION MAY FIND THE CONTENTS OF THIS POST OFFENSIVE.

25 Points

Average Rating: 4.46 [Total Votes: 50]

Tyler Durden - Taught a few hundred guys by now just from meeting guys through PAIR and in workshops recently, and this is the shit that ups their game instantly with no tactics or anything. I see this shit ALL THE TIME. It's the BIGGEST and most COMMON problem I see after everyone I've met. This is some of the main shit I focus on fixing when I'm in the field.

How To Be Genuine

Average Rating: 5.00 [Total Votes: 2]

Tyler Durden - WHAT IS GENUINE? WHAT IS FAKE? WHAT ACTIONS ARE GENUINE ACTIONS? HOW DOES THIS EFFECT US? WHAT PHILOSOPHICAL ISSUES ARISE FROM THIS? WHAT CONSTITUTES MUTUAL BENEFIT IN PICKUP?

Playing Hard To Get

Average Rating: 4.63 [Total Votes: 22]

Tyler Durden - This post is directed towards girls who you ascertain are attracted to challenging guys. Not all girls are like this, but many hot girls are. Again, many aren't. For guys use or advocate other styles which don't make use of this sort of stuff, the reason that they are getting laid is that they using other means of getting laid. There is more than one style. This post is something that is useful for guys in my context, and if you're using a totally different style than me, then this stuff may be useless to you.

Persistance

Average Rating: 3.67 [Total Votes: 3]

Gunwitch - There are 3 points in any given pick up that you will sometimes, not always, but usually have to have a great deal of persistence to get past. Not always, hence the "luck factor" of many PUs.

Pro PUAs Vs Amateurs

Average Rating: 4.75 [Total Votes: 4]

Gunwitch - some new stuff about the difference between the pros and the amateurs in this game...

Think Beyond The Medium

Average Rating: 4.72 [Total Votes: 7]

Razorjack - This has always been the core of my PU skills. I’ve always ranted about THINKING BEYOND THE MEDIUM. Unfortunately not too many people understand what I mean when I say “think beyond the medium”. This post is a pretty good example of what I mean.

Rewriting The Rules

Average Rating: 3.00 [Total Votes: 3]

Imperfect - How come it seems like the more some guys learn, the worse off they are with women? Why is it that some of the nights when you are doing so well, you aren’t even thinking about all the stuff, like delivery and frame control, that is supposed to matter?

Confident Rapport

Average Rating: 3.90 [Total Votes: 10]

Dreamweaver - The majority of theories on how to pick up girls were compiled by guys who had problems with women and tried to get better. Therein lies the very nature of the problems with most theory. They all assume that you, going over to the girl, have less value then her. By assuming this, you're forced to play a role of lower value. Why on earth are you assuming you are worth less then the girl? I don't care how hot she is!

Hook Points

Average Rating: 4.17 [Total Votes: 6]

IN10SE - I’m going to talk about an understanding that is very important to GET and is crucial to your success with women.

Extreme Multiple Threading and Dominant Rhythm

Average Rating: 4.86 [Total Votes: 21]

Sparky - As beginners when we think about building attraction through verbal game, the first thing that comes to mind is Power Lines, Negs, or magic pills/bullets/routines. We all have them, use them, and love them. Now, there's a very right way to deliver these, and a very wrong way. Lets start with a good delivery...

Natural Game Vs Routine Based

Average Rating: 4.50 [Total Votes: 2]

Richard La Ruina aka Gambler - I have never directly commented on this arguement - is it better to develop a script and go out and use it to pull women, or is it better to try and be natural?...

Create Sexual Vibes With Integrity

Michael W - One of the most important things to realize about success when it comes to attracting the kind of woman you are interested in, is that attraction is the result of MANY THINGS happening at ONCE.

Empathetic Listening

Average Rating: 3.67 [Total Votes: 3]

Brad P - I'd like to elaborate on what to do besides teasing in an interaction.

Magic Lines Vs Magic Personality

Michael W - Every guy before learning the TRUTH about attraction thinks that there are some specific set of lines that should be used for various situations with women.

How To Be Louder

Average Rating: 4.00 [Total Votes: 2]

Future - When we go out and teach live workshops, we see a lot of sticking points over and over again. One of the foremost of these is the lack of volume in a student or amateur pickup artist's voice.

Subtext

Average Rating: 5.00 [Total Votes: 2]

Cajun - What is subtext? In the acting world, subtext is the underlying meaning behind spoken words as interpreted by an actor. What does that mean?

Over Abundance

Average Rating: 5 [Total Votes: 1]

Sasha - However, there are some negative aspects to getting into game too hard too fast. Too much game can be, not only bad for your game, but bad for your life.

Open Loops

Average Rating: 4.19 [Total Votes: 43]

Swinggcat - Its Not What You Say, Its How You Say It. Down & Dirty Psychology For Piquing Any Woman's Interest