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Just wanted to say thanks. I was married for several years and man did the game change since I left it and I suppose I did as well. My social skills had disappeared and my comfort level out on the scene was gone.
After reading your material I realized that I used to do the right things even though I didn't know what the right things were. Now I notice attraction and where I am in every interaction.
Last weekend was the pinnacle of pickups for me as i took my first girl right off of her boyfriends arm. This guy is known as the player of my town. He gets the girls and I wanted to test the waters. I was with one of my best friends who I have been trying to get to understand your concepts. I told my best friend about a way to start conversations with women. He laughed at it.
That night we ended up running into the player. He walked up and introduced his girl friends to us. I immediately engaged her. Within seconds she had moved around him to get closer to me, turned her back on him and was right in my face. I watched him slowly back out of the group. How could he get mad? I didn't obviously hit on her but the attraction was just flowing and he could see it. My friend was absolutely amazed and the player just disappeared. I tried to make the girl go back to her boyfriend but she wouldn't go. Her words to me, "You're so interesting though". I couldn't shake her. I don't usually do that to guys and I almost felt bad, but this guy it didn't bother me. He has banged plenty of other guy's girls and I had to do it.
- Savoi Va.
Every guy reading this whose girlfriend or wife slipped out of his fingers and into the hands of a slithering player is thinking, “Amen brother!” Revenge is a dish best served cold.
Awesome stuff man! And I'll say more about this later.
But first… I want to discuss something you wrote:
“ I was married for several years and man did the game change since I left it and I suppose I did as well. My social skills had disappeared and my comfort level out on the scene was gone.”
Many circumstances can atrophy a man's social skills: From becoming immersed in work or school to spending years in a long term relationship.
None of these things are bad, per se. In fact, each one can bring a person joy.
But venturing back into the single scene trenches after a long hiatus can make a man feel like a lost little lamb in a jungle full of snakes and hyenas.
I should know because I've been there before.
It's astounding how many nuances guys forget when they haven't practiced attracting women for a while.
When it's been some time for me and I'm feeling a little rusty, I – believe it or not! – listen to my own courses. This reminds me of all the subtle techniques I've forgotten.
“After reading your material I realized that I used to do the right things even though I didn't know what the right things were. Now I notice attraction and where I am in every interaction.”
Thanks man. Knowing that I'm making a difference for guys out there is what motivates me to keep discovering, honing, and teaching ways to successfully attract women.
I get inundated with emails from guys sharing your exact experience: After taking the time to study my courses, they realized they were doing a lot right. They just weren't aware of what it was.
Now they are able to eliminate what they were doing wrong, increase what they were doing right, and gain complete control over their interactions with women.
“I was with one of my best friends who I have been trying to get to understand your concepts. I told my best friend about a way to start conversations with women. He laughed at it.”
I remember back in college I shared some ideas I had about meeting women with a buddy of mine.
He laughed at me like a jackal full of hubris. Then he proceeded to lecture me on the right way to meet women.
But when push came to shove, his success rate covered a female demographic reaching nobody except Rosy, his left palm… and her sweet little sister Calloused, his right. After being shot down twice he was huffing and puffing low self esteem.
When he noticed my crazy ideas putting women in stitches, pumping them full of lust, and compelling them to put their little paws all over me, he was seething with anger like a troll full of hate.
The moral of the story is this…
Don't let your friends' jeering, haranguing, and teasing get under your skin. Their opinion doesn't mean jack.
The real judge is the results you get in the Real World.
Your buddy is a good friend. He was man enough to admit that what you were doing was working. But that's not always the case.
Here's the stark reality: Sometimes friends want you to stay exactly how you were when they met you. They don't like it when you evolve. Every so often, they will do everything in their power to stop you from changing.
My advice: let these people go. Replace them with people who are a positive force in your life.
Within seconds she had moved around him to get closer to me, turned her back on him and was right in my face. I watched him slowly back out of the group. How could he get mad? I didn't obviously hit on her but the attraction was just flowing and he could see it. My friend was absolutely amazed and the player just disappeared. I tried to make the girl go back to her boyfriend but she wouldn't go. Her words to me, "You're so interesting though.”
I think the skill you demonstrated was great.
But… There are a lot of potential risks involved with hitting on another guy's girlfriend: crushing a person's ego, getting beat up… and the list could go on ad infinitum.
I don't give out moral advice… so you are going to have to decide for yourself if attracting women in relationships is something you want to do.
I will say this (and what I'm going to say might freak some people out)…
Attraction is largely involuntary. People in committed relationships have to make a concerted effort to stop themselves from feeling attraction for others.
Maybe the player's girlfriend was flirting with you to make him jealous. Or maybe she's sick and tired of being with a player.
Or maybe – and there's good chance this is what happened – your charisma and attraction skills have gotten so good that they eclipsed your player friend right out of the picture.
I wish you gave more details… but here's my guess about what you did…
1) You went into the interaction with the unwavering belief that you are the Prize – that you are the greatest thing to ever happen to her. You exuded this belief through your body language, tone of voice, and personality.
2) Because your words and actions were congruent with your belief that you are the Prize, she bought into your belief as well. You established the frame – or the underlining meaning of the interaction – that you are the Prize she is trying to win over. In plain English, you sucked her right out of his reality and into yours.
3) You pumped her full of lust by using some of the attraction skills I teach, such as: Tension Loops, Push-Pull, and Qualifying & Challenging (if you are reading this and don't know what these skills are, click here).
When a man has the confidence and skills to quickly establish the frame in interaction with a female that he's the Prize she wants to win over and trigger intense attraction side her body, he has the power and choice to take his love life in the direction he chooses.
But when a man lacks these skills, succeeding and attracting women can be a frustrating and less than satisfying battle. Most of the time, he'll end up settling for a woman below what he's capable of attracting.
If you currently DON'T possess these skills, don't worry... because...
You're in luck…
I might not know you personally. But I do know...
What I teach gets results. It consistently drives women to see you as a Prize and triggers uncontrollable amounts of attraction inside them.
Just like many others have been doing, you too can catapult your current lifestyle with women by getting your hands on a copy of my ebook right now. You deserve it.
I'm so confident that my course is going to drastically increase your success with women I'm going to let you test-drive it for free of charge. Don't like it, send it back. You won't be charged and we'll still be friends.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with the women you really want.
Your Loyal Dating Coach,
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