Don't Waste Your Time With Cheesy Lines That Don't Work
Start The Conversation Off Right!
Pick up lines have a very bad reputation.
How many times have we heard cheesy pick up lines like:
"Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?"
"Your name must be Gillett, because you're the best a man can get."
"Did you wash your pants with windex? Because I can see myself in them."
Let's face it - if you use lines like these on a girl, she's not going to give you the time of day.
But because the bad pick up lines get so much attention, people think ALL pick up lines are like this.
And this just isn't true.
A good pick up line will actually do what it says - help you pick up a girl!
Understand: The whole point of using a pick up line is to get a conversation started.
Once you get the girl talking with you, then you can work your magic and do what you need to do to get the date, the phone number, or the make-out.
But if you can't get the conversation started, then you can do anything else!
Because you shouldn't just be talking to a girl. You should be ENGAGING the girl. Pulling her into a conversation with you is the only sure-fire way to further your agenda.
And guess what? A good pick up line will do that!
When I first started going out to meet women, I was always at a loss of what to say to first meet a girl. I was always trying to think of something to say off the top of my head, and more often than not, I'd miss my opportunity to meet a great girl because it took me too long to think something up.
That is why it's important to know one or two good pick up lines that actually WORK. Because for those situations where you can't be original, you need something to help you take action!
But don't be fooled into thinking you can get away with a line like:
"Do I know you from somewhere?"
All women know this to be a lame pick up line. You might think you're being clever when you say this, but you're not.
Also, doing things like asking for directions, telling a girl she looks like a certain celebrity, and complimenting her on a piece of clothing are BAD ways to pick a girl up.
Because these things do not ENGAGE the girl. Once she responds, there is nothing to keep her in the conversation.
Good pick up lines avoid "yes and no" answers. They are about getting the girl to think about her response, evoking an emotional reaction, and making her WANT to continue to communicate with you.
So how do you engage a girl?
The easiest way is to ask her opinion about something. Every woman has strong opinions, and they aren't afraid to share them! (Particularly when they come to relationships!)
So to give you an example, you could say something like: "Hey, can I get your opinion on something real quick? Do you think it's weird for a woman to try and get pregnant because she wants her baby to be born under a certain astrological sign? I really want to hear a woman's perspective on this."
Then you can follow up with a story about how you know a woman who wants to make sure her kid's zodiac signs are compatible with hers so they will be well behaved as they grow up.
This leads to all kinds of different conversation topics, things like:
The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:
"Do you believe in astrology?" (this can lead into discussions of fate and destiny)
"What sign are you?" (this leads into your sign compatibility with her - HINT: no matter what her sign is, you're compatible!)
"Do you like kids? You seem like the nurturing type."
I could go on and on, but you get the idea.
So as you can see, this pick up line is designed to pull the girl into a deep and interesting conversation, and gives you the opportunity to get to know her better and allow her to become familiar with you.
This is how conversations are started!
At this point, it's the easiest thing in the world to get a phone number from a girl, and possibly even set up a first date.
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Wishing you success,
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